Myron "Mike" Stoebner

Myron "Mike" Stoebner


Dates

July 21, 1936 - October 6, 2025

Obituary

Myron “Mike” Robert Stoebner, 89, of Tripp, SD. With deep love and great sadness, we announce the passing of Myron “Mike” Robert Stoebner, on Oct 6, 2025. He was welcomed into God’s arms at the age of 89, surrounded by his family, at Avera McKennan Hospital in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, after a battle with West Nile Virus. Funeral services will be 2:00 PM Sunday, October 12, at Salem Reformed Church in Menno, SD. Burial will be at New Salem Reformed Cemetery in rural Delmont, SD. Arrangements by Bittner Funeral Chapel.

Mike was born on Tuesday, July 21, 1936, to Robert & Martha (Meyer) Stoebner, on the George Stoebner homestead, four miles northeast of Tripp, South Dakota, in German Township. He was the only child of Robert and Martha (Meyer) Stoebner.

He was baptized in the rural Bethel Reformed church by Reverend Calvin Stuebbe on October 11, 1936. His roots in farming began early. At just four years old, his father tied him to the grain binder so he could trip the bundles—an early sign of his lifelong commitment to hard work and precision. His neat rows of bundles were so perfect, neighbors often wondered who Robert had hired. Even at a young age, Mike aimed to do everything right.

Mike was confirmed at Frieden’s Reformed Church in Tripp, SD on March 25,1951 by Reverend Walter Odenbach. He began his education at Pathfinder School #90, just one mile from home, where he learned the English language. He later graduated from Tripp High School, where he participated in football, basketball, and track, and played the baritone in the band—“poorly,” he once admitted with a smile.

In 1954, Mike enrolled at the University of South Dakota in Vermillion. He was proud to serve as President of the Alpha Tau Omega fraternity during his senior year and earned his Bachelor of Science in Business in 1959. That same year, he enlisted in the U.S. Army National Guard, completing six months of training at Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri. He often joked about an inspection where a pin on his uniform was found to be a sixteenth of an inch off—earning him a weekend of raking leaves.

Following his service, Mike returned to the family farm in German Township, partnering with his parents. A forward-thinking and innovative farmer, he was the first in the area to plant soybeans in double rows using a four-row planter on an open tractor. His fields were immaculate, with weed-free rows and perfectly aligned markers. In 1985, he proudly raised the South Dakota State Fair Grand Champion Steer.

Over the years, the farm grew and evolved. Mike raised cattle, hogs, sheep, broilers, and ducks, and cultivated corn, soybeans, alfalfa, and grass hay. When hog prices dropped to 10 cents, he and Pat began to slowly retire, transitioning livestock to others—including a young man in Dimock who took over the sheep. Mike believed in treating every farm employee with dignity and equality, often saying, “There isn’t anything you will do that I have not done myself. And you will eat and drink at our table.”

On October 4, 1964, Mike married Patricia Guthmiller in a ceremony officiated by Pastor Henry Roemer. They shared 61 years of marriage, filled with laughter, hard work, community, and love.

Mike served his community in many roles: as Treasurer of German Township, Treasurer of Frieden’s Reformed Church, and as a board member for the Federal Land Bank in Yankton. He also sold South Dakota Certified Oat Seed and Trojan Seed Corn.

In his limited free time, Mike enjoyed cheering for his beloved Chicago Bears, playing pinochle, poker, blackjack, and visiting with friends. He loved a good hand of cards, a cold drink, and the camaraderie of those around him. In his younger years, Tripp was a bustling town, and Mike could often be found at Hink’s Café or Cookie’s Bar—back when there wasn’t a single four-way stop sign in town.

He mentored many young men who later became successful farmers themselves—carrying forward the wisdom, discipline, and values Mike lived by every day.

Mike is survived by his loving wife, Patricia; brother-in-law, J.C. Guthmiller; nephew, Judd (Jaclyn) Guthmiller and their sons Jakob and Mitchell of Volga, SD; nephew, Chad (Amber) Guthmiller and their daughters Savana, Summer, Skye, and Piper of Volga, SD and his loyal puppy Sam. He is also remembered fondly by many cousins, extended family, and countless friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Mike leaves behind a lifetime of memories—some cherished, some humorous, and a few best left untold—but all of them full of the heart, grit, and humor that made him who he was.

We will carry his stories, laughter, and lessons with us always.



Service

Date
Sunday, October 12, 2025
Time
2:00 PM
Location
Salem Reformed Church
707 S 5th St
Menno, SD 57045

Cemetery

New Salem Reformed Cemetery
Rural Delmont, SD


Posted by Hilda Lagge Benne on October 9, 2025
we have crossed paths many times mostly because my sister Sandy and Pat were classmates. they were always a couple you enjoyed being around. my condolences to you Pat. We plan to be at the funeral.
Posted by Darla Huether on October 9, 2025
I have memories of so many fun times with Mike and Pat while we lived there. Mike had the greatest sincere laugh.
Sending my sympathy to you Pat.
Posted by Arnie and Ruth Dewald on October 8, 2025
So sorry to hear of Mike’s passing. As a classmate of Arnie’s, I got to know Pat and Mike at their class reunions. What a fun time listening to tales of good times held by the group. Mike always had good stories about fun times they created. Mike and Pat worked well and extremely hard together besides supporting their community. Mike and Pat were always
generous and kind to all their many friends and family. Mike will be missed by many. Sincere sympathy and prayers to Pat.
Posted by Daniel Konrad on October 8, 2025
Pat, I’m just at a loss of words for what to tell you. I’ll see you at the funeral Sunday.
Posted by Tim and Julie Pearson on October 8, 2025
We are thinking of you, Pat! We are sorry to hear about Myron. We always looked forward to visiting with you and Myron when you brought your breeding heifers up to us and then again when you came back to get them. Sending you a hug and our sympathy!
Posted by Al Shauf on October 8, 2025
I too was one of Mike's fraternity brothers at the University of South Dakota. In many ways, he was one of my mentors. I remember him as others have described him; always kind, considerate, and someone you could "look up to."
Posted by Dave and Teresa Buchmann on October 8, 2025
So sorry to hear about Mike.He worked hard and was a very kind man. God be with Pat in your time of sorrow
Posted by Kent Scribner on October 8, 2025
I was a fraternity brother of Mike's at the University in Vermillion. He was a great person in many ways, including his year as president at the Alpha Tau Omega house. I am so touched to see all the cordial comments.from his neighbors and friends.
Posted by Deborah (Stoebner) Nyenhuis on October 8, 2025
Mike was a very kind man who always remembered my name even after I'd been away from Tripp for many years. His smile and warmth were a treat as he and Pat often delivered produce and baked goodies from their garden to my parent's house (Reno & Sandra). Sending prayers to Pat and all who mourn his loss.
Posted by Stacy Schmidt on October 8, 2025
I will never forget coming home from our church Christmas Eve program when I was young and there was a sheep tied to our yard light with a big red bow on it! We were all so excited and I remember helping Dad put it in the nursery with our dresses on. I will always remember Mike as a very nice, hardworking neighbor. ❤️
Posted by Tanya Crockett on October 8, 2025
Growing up on the farm myself in the same section as the Stoebner farm … many memories flood my mind and warm my heart … I remember there BRIGHT pole lights- I would say it’s like “daylight” in the dark … I remember skipping school to watch the 60x60 horse barn be moved- it stretched fence line to fence line … and then the “barn party” after. I spend many nights at the Stoebner farm while my parents went to MN or WI to get loads of baby calves … I was always treated like a princess! In later years when I had children, my oldest Tucker thought he was going to climb up the silo- Mike says “come on up” as 6 year old Tucker’s legs wobble (my kid still remembers that experience) … my youngest Tanner enjoyed playing cards at the Stoebner farm; Mike couldn’t believe how tall they grew! And more memories keep flooding … they definitely start with hard work and would end with a fantastic meal or a party! May you rest in peace Myron, you will always have a special place in my heart.
Posted by Rod and Jayne Heemstra on October 8, 2025
Mike was the kindest man I have ever known. Together Mike and Pat had that charming warmth of rural farm life which will never be duplicated. May he rest in peace.
Posted by Karla Koons on October 8, 2025
What a beautiful reflection of a life well lived.
Posted by Sandra Stoebner on October 7, 2025
A very good friend & hard worker who cut & baled the hay around my shelter belt and ditches for years. He always did a very good job.
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